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Sunday, July 15, 2012

Au Naturale v. Made/Dolled Up?

Fellow subs... which do you prefer of your Mistress (or master)?  That they be all dressed, shaved, showered, brushed, and made up/looking what society would label their "absolute best," or more simple/natural/homely... if any just a little make up like some light lip-gloss (but more likely nothing) maybe not showered that day, mussed hair, not shaved... etc?

On the one hand I want my Mistress to do what makes her happy... If she feels best all perfectly primped and dolled up then by all means... I want her to.  And I think it's quite nice every once in a while, especially if we go out it's nice to show off and unlike some men I don't mind if other's gawk and gape, makes me feel all the more lucky/special.  But when it's just us alone on a weekend or together in our most intimate nights... I really don't care / almost would prefer she go natural.  Tone down the make-up or forget it entirely.  Hair everywhere - messy on the head and growing in everywhere else (I'm just not big on long, dangling leg hairs but don't mind/even enjoy some bushy bits/armpit afro's as long as I don't need an amazonian guide with a machete to navigate my way to the promised land) as long as it's not at the sharp/painful stubble stage (although as a masochist, even that can be kind of erotic).  Save the environment and skip a shower or two.

I feel like she's a goddess... her body's a temple and I'm here to worship.  I don't want her to fall into complete disarray and not take care of herself...  But I love her for who she is - how SHE looks and how SHE smells - not how her makeup looks and how her perfume smells.  I dunno.  Maybe I'm gross, or weird, or nasty... But I feel like I'd almost rather bury my face in any of her body parts and lick anywhere if she's let her... idk... natural state come out.  I feel like people weren't really meant to wash away all their natural oils, pheromones, and remove all their hair on a daily/sometimes twice daily basis... and when I'm in love, I find it highly erotic to actually be able to smell and taste my partner for who she really is.

Don't get me wrong... I never wanted this when a relationship was brand new or if I wasn't even in a relationship (which I ultimately decided was not for me) when it comes to that I expect basic hygiene.  But when I love my partner... I don't know.  I just find her scent intoxicating, I can't get enough of it and I feel like it's almost a crime to wash it away all the time.  But I also don't want her to get stares / dirty looks never holding up to basic societal expectations of cleanliness... it's a "just us" thing and wouldn't expect her to walk around town never showering, never wearing makeup, etc...  Now if it makes her feel uncomfortable or she thinks it's gross it's a dead issue... Her happiness is what's important to me... But if she doesn't mind or even enjoys the level of devotion I have to her and who she really is, then I say if we're not going out or doing anything... why bathe when you've a slave to lick you clean? :P

How do you guys feel?  Anyone else get off on the way their partner REALLY is, not the image they prop up and project to everyone else?  There's something I find about it that just seems so... liberating.  Like we're putting on an act with everyone else, but when she's with me... she doesn't have to.  'Cause I'll love her no matter what.  But of course, these are just my preferences in the end it's always up to her.

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