(No sexual stuff yet in this part, just a setup for what's to come. Based on real experiences with my Mistress. [Though not in the same way movies are "based" on a true story. This is 100% true, but dialogue may not be accurate to a T/exact words. And mundane stuff like doing laundry or cooking etc is left out]).
Driving on 40-55 speed highways for a half hour in order to avoid tolls and dealing with narrow lanes and narrow talent Mass-hole drivers drains my energy, but not determination. Despite such resolve, anxiety, jitters, and anticipation attacks my system full force as I pull onto my Momma's street and stop. Of course there are only resident spots available and not visitor, but I'm too excited to drive around searching - I just HAVE to see her.
Fluttering fingers fumble with my phone's buttons for a few moments, forced to delete and reenter numbers several times until I get frustrated and hold down the 1 button to speed dial her. It's apt... since that's what she is to me, Number One.
"Momma, I'm on your street! I'm parked at the intersection of Mabel and Chief."
"I'll be right there, Babyboy."
She had finally invited me to stay at her home, for a whole weekend no less! Excitement bubbles in my belly, along with the butterflies. In a feeble attempt to quell them, I plant my left foot on the floor of my Hyundai, bouncing my knee so rapidly that if someone sat on my lap they would be as likely to vomit as if riding a rollercoaster on a full stomach. With sweaty hands and shaky palms I smoke a cigarette to calm my nerves; watching, waiting for her to waltz on over. Every time I see an umbrella bob above car roofs down the street, my heart leaps in my chest - only to be repeatedly disappointed. I knew she'd make me wait... I smile and imagine her procrastinating until I called her and told her I was close to start getting ready.
While lighting my second cigarette I wind up dropping my lighter... There she is! Long, dark red hair sways in the wind with every sultry step she takes - walking, as always, with purpose. Those thick, luscious lips curl into one of her equally heart-melting and alluring smiles. Adorned in comfortable clothing, she's as sexy as ever - I'm a firm believer in it's not about what's being worn, but the wearer. A simple black hoodie and jeans - but damn do they show off her full hips and lovely legs.
I pull out of my parking spot both to pick her up so she can show me a safe place to park and to keep her from having to walk all the way over, as much as I'd love to watch. Each movement has a grace and confidence seldom seen in most women - she's always full of fabulousity. When next to her I stop and lean over to push her door open. She sits and I can't help but stare somewhat awkwardly, smiling from ear to ear.
"Come here,"
Looping her finger into the O ring on my collar, she pulls me towards her and our lips lock in a passionate, firm kiss. Her tongue slips in, slides against my own, and swirls around inside my mouth, before parting with a light smacking sound.
"So... whaddya think, Babyboy?"
In a hoarse voice I almost croak, "Perfect as always, Momma!"
After bringing her to a local bakery to pick up a cake (since it was my birthday), we park back on her street and she gives me a small tour of her neighborhood. The whole time I'm thinking, "Come on... come on... wanna go back to your place.. come on. Oh I don't wanna talk to this person... Fuck that monument!" Not that it wasn't a nice neighborhood, and I wasn't interested in JUST sex... but I could not wait to spend quality time with my Mistress... one on one time... after being apart so long. After what seemed like ages we walked back to her place. She opened her door and gave me such a sexy look from over her shoulder, and beckoned me in....
(To be continued)
Breastfeeding
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Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Saturday, August 18, 2012
Induced Lactation / Goldfarb Protocol
This is going to be a little more of an informative post about how, exactly, my Mommy induced lactation using the Goldfarb Protocol. I am not; however, suggesting you do this (always consult a doctor before making serious changes in your body), but if you're curious about inducing lactation, here's how we did it:
There are a few different routes you can take, depending upon how much time you have until you want to start feeding. If you absolutely can't wait, you can do it in about 2 months. You're basically going to trick your breasts into thinking you got pregnant with birth control pills. If you cannot take standard birth control pills you can use provera instead. You'll also be taking domperidone, first in combination with the bcp's and later just by itself.
So you're going to want to take birth control pills for at least 30 days before you start pumping (you'll want to be off before you start pumping) but the longer the better. If you want to do it as fast as possible:
Start taking birth control 2 months before feeding, and 20 mg of domperidone 4x a day. Do not take the placebos in the bcps just take the real ones.
1 month before feeding, suspend the bcp usage but continue taking 20 mg domperidone 4x daily. Start pumping your breasts with a double electric breast pump. You're going to want to do at least 10 minutes per breast at least 8 times a day, at least one of those being between 1 and 5 am when there's heightened milk production. You'll probably have to work your way up / ease into it - just do what you can handle. But the more frequent you can the better because the more often you pump the more milk your breasts will produce. Think about it like this... a newborn is probably going to want to feed between every 2 to 3 hours... so you're going to want to be able to pump often so you're prepared for that.
If you're doing it for ANR, you and your partner may not want to feed that often, but pump anyways.There's a lot of good information on asklenore.com - I believe it's the website of the person who developed the protocol - including pumping instructions here: http://www.asklenore.info/breastfeeding/induced_lactation/pumping_instructions.shtml
If you have more time take the bcps for over 60 days. Stop taking them 6 weeks before feeding - the first week you stop them take 10mg domperidone 4x daily, then increase to 20 mg domperidone 4x daily and stay there for the remainder of the time you're on domperidone. Start pumping 6 weeks before feeding, too.
It doesn't really matter how long you've been pumping for except to train your breast to be able to do more pumps - the frequency is what's going to actually increase your breast pump output. So you don't need to be pumping for 4 months before feeding since after a few weeks of getting used to it, you should be able to pump the recommended 8-12x daily.
When you're pumping (4 weeks before feeding for milk rush, 6 weeks for quantity buildup) you can start taking several different types of herbs to increase production, like fenugreek, mother's milk, and blessed thistle. Also, eating oatmeal everyday will increase your yield, too.
I hope you found this helpful, if you have any questions feel free to ask or check out Ask Lenore. All the information there can be a little intimidating, so this is basically the Goldfarb protocol in a nutshell. Of course you should always consult a physician before starting any medications, including bcp's. Many women can/should NOT take them. But if you can, or if you can take provera, and wish to induce lactation I wish you good luck! I'd love to hear how you did it if you did it a different way, or about your experiences in ANR.
There are a few different routes you can take, depending upon how much time you have until you want to start feeding. If you absolutely can't wait, you can do it in about 2 months. You're basically going to trick your breasts into thinking you got pregnant with birth control pills. If you cannot take standard birth control pills you can use provera instead. You'll also be taking domperidone, first in combination with the bcp's and later just by itself.
So you're going to want to take birth control pills for at least 30 days before you start pumping (you'll want to be off before you start pumping) but the longer the better. If you want to do it as fast as possible:
Start taking birth control 2 months before feeding, and 20 mg of domperidone 4x a day. Do not take the placebos in the bcps just take the real ones.
1 month before feeding, suspend the bcp usage but continue taking 20 mg domperidone 4x daily. Start pumping your breasts with a double electric breast pump. You're going to want to do at least 10 minutes per breast at least 8 times a day, at least one of those being between 1 and 5 am when there's heightened milk production. You'll probably have to work your way up / ease into it - just do what you can handle. But the more frequent you can the better because the more often you pump the more milk your breasts will produce. Think about it like this... a newborn is probably going to want to feed between every 2 to 3 hours... so you're going to want to be able to pump often so you're prepared for that.
If you're doing it for ANR, you and your partner may not want to feed that often, but pump anyways.There's a lot of good information on asklenore.com - I believe it's the website of the person who developed the protocol - including pumping instructions here: http://www.asklenore.info/breastfeeding/induced_lactation/pumping_instructions.shtml
If you have more time take the bcps for over 60 days. Stop taking them 6 weeks before feeding - the first week you stop them take 10mg domperidone 4x daily, then increase to 20 mg domperidone 4x daily and stay there for the remainder of the time you're on domperidone. Start pumping 6 weeks before feeding, too.
It doesn't really matter how long you've been pumping for except to train your breast to be able to do more pumps - the frequency is what's going to actually increase your breast pump output. So you don't need to be pumping for 4 months before feeding since after a few weeks of getting used to it, you should be able to pump the recommended 8-12x daily.
When you're pumping (4 weeks before feeding for milk rush, 6 weeks for quantity buildup) you can start taking several different types of herbs to increase production, like fenugreek, mother's milk, and blessed thistle. Also, eating oatmeal everyday will increase your yield, too.
I hope you found this helpful, if you have any questions feel free to ask or check out Ask Lenore. All the information there can be a little intimidating, so this is basically the Goldfarb protocol in a nutshell. Of course you should always consult a physician before starting any medications, including bcp's. Many women can/should NOT take them. But if you can, or if you can take provera, and wish to induce lactation I wish you good luck! I'd love to hear how you did it if you did it a different way, or about your experiences in ANR.
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